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The Clitoris You Cannot Find Is Not Missing

Some women go looking with a mirror for the part every diagram puts an arrow at, and find a smooth fold of skin and nothing else. Nothing is missing. The hood is simply long, and in one naming framework that single feature defines the South of the wheel. Here is the anatomy, the framework's claims about the women who have it, and a clear line between the two.

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Sepia botanical line drawing on cream paper: an anatomical illustration of a vulva with a long tunnel-like clitoral hood, flanked by a sheep drawn in the same fine ink, framed by leaves and small stars, with the name lingerieforum.org set into the decorative border.

You went looking with a mirror. Every diagram you have ever seen puts an arrow at a specific spot, and at that spot you found a smooth fold of skin and no obvious anything. You concluded, quietly and without telling a single person, that something was missing.

Nothing is missing. Your hood is long.

What a hood is, and why yours may cover everything

The clitoral hood is a fold of skin that sits over the glans of the clitoris, much as an eyelid sits over an eye. It is formed where the inner labia meet at the top, and its job is to protect a small piece of tissue that is dense with nerve endings.

Its length varies enormously between women. At one end of the range the hood is short and the glans sits plainly visible with the body at rest. At the other, the hood runs the full length of the clitoral shaft and covers the glans completely, so that at rest there is a smooth continuous seam and nothing to see at all. Both are ordinary. Neither is a developmental error, and neither was caused by anything you did.

A long hood also tends to be a tunnel rather than a flap: a sleeve of skin around the shaft rather than a single covering laid on top. That shape is the thing this article is about, because in the framework described below it is the defining feature of one named type.

The type the South is named for

There is a naming framework, set out by Amara Charles in the book credited at the foot of this page and taught in her workshops since the 1990s, that sorts vulvas into nine kinds and gives each an animal name instead of a clinical one. The nine sit on a wheel: eight compass directions and a centre. Four of them are cardinal points and are described in full detail, with measurements. The type at the South is the Sheep Woman.

Her named distinguishing feature is exactly the hood above: long, smooth, tunnel-like, covering the clitoris entirely.

The rest of the anatomy the book lists for the South:

  • A vulva that is full and somewhat rounded rather than flat, frequently with a rosy colour to it.
  • Inner labia that are fairly thin, though thicker and larger than those of the smallest type on the wheel.
  • A distance between the clitoris and the vaginal opening of two to three fingers. The book explains how to take that measurement, and the method is simple: lay your fingers together horizontally just under the clitoris and count how many fit between it and the entrance.
  • A structural detail worth knowing, because it is genuinely observable. In this type, and in one other on the wheel, the hood and the labia are continuous, a single piece of skin. In the other types the hood is a separate fold that is not joined to the lips.

The book also gives figures in inches for the depth of the vagina in each type. Those are the book's numbers, not this site's, and several of them sit outside what anatomy references describe, so treat them as part of the framework rather than as measurements anyone has verified.

Where the wheel does the arguing

The South, in this scheme, is the place of emotion and of water. That matters, because the direction is not just a label in the book. It is used as an explanation. Sheep Women are described as being almost always very wet, and the reason given is that the South is associated with water.

That is an association held inside a framework, not a mechanism. How much a woman lubricates varies with her cycle, her hormones, her medication, her age, how aroused she is and how long she has been aroused, and none of those things consult a compass. The wetness is real variation. The explanation for it is a piece of the system's own internal logic.

What Charles claims about the women, and how firmly

This is the half of the chapter that has to be read differently.

Charles describes Sheep Women as gregarious and heart-centred, sweet-natured in ordinary company and unexpectedly fierce when something they love is threatened. In her account they are strongly attuned to other people's feelings, inclined to go along with the group, and prone to crying easily. The weakness she attributes to the type is that a woman who follows has to learn to lead, and to keep sight of what she wants when strong feeling takes over. The type summary she gives for the South's sexual temperament runs: gregarious, inviting, heart-centred, sensitive, deeply caring. She also describes preferences, including a good deal of warmth and reassurance and an average time to orgasm of fifteen to twenty minutes, and she presents these as temperament rather than as consequences of the anatomy.

In the framework, the animal does the arguing. Sheep are social, they stay close to the flock for safety, and they follow. Therefore, the book reasons, so do the women named after them.

Two things are worth saying plainly about that. Charles states these claims without hedging, and her stated method on these pages is anecdotal: she writes from years of conversations with women in her workshops, not from a survey, a measurement protocol or any clinical source. And the book itself says that the physical features and the described qualities can come apart, so that a woman may have a direction's anatomy without a single one of the traits attached to it. Even inside the system, the character material is offered as a tendency rather than as a result.

One framework among many

This is not a medical classification. No clinician uses it, no anatomy textbook contains it, and there is no body of research behind the nine types. It is one woman's system, published in one book, taught in her workshops.

What it does offer is a vocabulary in which a shape is a kind rather than a fault, which is more than the cosmetic surgery industry offers and more than a before-and-after gallery offers. If that is useful to you, use it. If the personality half reads to you like a horoscope, you can leave it and keep the anatomy, and you will not have lost anything.

The book's own instruction on this point is worth following: read the descriptions and decide for yourself which you think you are. It says directly that a woman's type cannot simply be seen, and that working it out means considering internal and external features together. Nobody is in a position to hand you a verdict, this site included.

One last thing, because a long hood sends a lot of women looking for a problem that is not there. Appearance is not a medical finding. The line is function, and if you want the specifics of what genuinely warrants a doctor rather than a mirror, they are set out in Are My Labia Normal? The Honest Answer, which is the front door to this series.


Framework: Amara Charles, "The Sexual Practices of Quodoushka: Teachings from the Nagual Tradition" (Destiny Books), chapter 8, "Female Genital Anatomy Types".

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